I live with my in laws for 14 months. Husband and I live with them days before I gave birth to yena and then left the house before yena turned 14 months old.
Since I don’t know how to cook, I looked like I was a border at my MIL’s house. On weekdays, husband and I had to go to work, we would bring yena to my mother and the three of us would go home at night time. So I had the weekends to spend with the in laws, and it was fine. Weekends for us means eating binge on Saturdays, videoke session in the afternoon, Sunday mornings in the church and chatting the time away. Repeat the whole week in sequence, lol.
So their first impressions? I don’t know. I was myself when I was with them. As for me, I love my MIL and FIL, coz they treat me like their own daughter from the first day hub brought me to their home.